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Jerry Martin's avatar

I really enjoyed your letter even though it made my eyes leak. That birthday party was the best idea ever and I'm so glad I got to be there with your family to celebrate her. I wanted to be with my mother at the end, but her mind left us before her body did. Judy and I took care of her round the clock for that last year and were at her house that day. The nurse we hired was by her side all the time. My brothers were all there (except Eric who was waiting on the other side of the rainbow). We all said goodbye to her. I stepped outside the house for just a minute and when I came back in the nurse told me she was gone. I regret that I was not there with her when she drew her last breath. I know she still looks out for me.

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Linda Bates Margison's avatar

It meant so much to us all that you and Judy were there to celebrate her... Your lovely mom was one of the best – too many good ones are gone. ❤️

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Teresa's avatar

❤️❤️❤️

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Ari's avatar

A lot has happened in 8years. Crazy how it only seems like yesterday having the sleep over but also a life time ago. I do believe Nana had a roll in Jose. He checked all the boxes I put on my list I talked to Nana about … little did I know some of those things would drive me nuts :) I love you so much Linda.

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Linda Bates Margison's avatar

Yes, eight years is hard to believe, and she has missed so much. I bet she knew some of those things you wanted would eventually drive you nuts. It happens in all relationships, even mine with 911. Thanks for being “my girl,” always and forever. 🧡

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